BATE: Raleigh
From Distraction to Connection: Why We Ditched the Porn
I love porn. You probably do too. So when I first ran a BATE session, playing porn seemed like the obvious move. It wasn't.
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BATE: Raleigh
What Really Happens Behind the Door: How Does It Work?
The most asked question we get: 'How does it work?' Walking into something this intimate for the first time can feel like a leap. Here's the full picture.
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Straight, Curious, and Looking to Stroke?
You don't have to identify as gay to find your way to a BATE: Raleigh session. Straight men, curious men, and men who don't label themselves at all — you're welcome here.
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Why I Started BATE: Raleigh
It wasn't to be edgy — it was to fill a void. I wanted to create a space where men could come together, affirm their erotic energy, and not feel pressure to perform, impress, or hook up.
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