Evening Network
6:30 PM – 8:30 PM
Raleigh-Midtown
0 / 45 Registered

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BATE: Raleigh is a jack-off club where men aged 21 and older can get naked and play with other men privately and comfortably.
To promote and host men-only group jack-off events that foster and expand our sexual awareness while building a culture of mutual respect, dignity, and inclusivity among our brothers in a judgment-free environment.Learn More →
Men walk in nervous and walk out connected. Strangers become regulars. The room builds something real.
Every interaction is consensual. No one touches without permission. This isn't just a rule — it's the culture.
No performance. No expectations. Move at your own pace, stay in your corner, or sync with the group.
Masturbation-only means everyone is on the same page — focused on presence, not conquest.
These rules keep the space safe, hot, and worth coming back to. Attendance means full agreement — no exceptions.
All activities must be mutually consensual. Ask before you touch. Respect every "no" — verbal or non-verbal. A pause, a step back, or any sign of discomfort means stop immediately.
BATE: Raleigh is a masturbation-only event. No oral sex and no anal sex of any kind. This is the defining rule of our space — it is non-negotiable.
With mutual consent: self-masturbation, mutual masturbation, erotic touching, showing & watching, cock-to-cock contact, frottage/humping, and nipple play. Kissing is permitted with mutual consent.
No oral sex (giving or receiving). No anal sex or anal contact of any kind. No fingering or insertion. No docking. No exceptions.
Always give a verbal warning before ejaculating. You may cum on yourself or the floor/provided canvas. Cumming on another person requires their explicit prior consent. Never on anyone's face or near the anal area without clear consent.
Minimum attire: underwear, jockstrap, or shorts. Hats, caps, shoes/boots, and fetish/leather wear are welcome. Full nudity is permitted and encouraged once inside the play space.
If you are sick, contagious, or experiencing an active STI outbreak (herpes, syphilis sores, etc.) — please stay home. This includes cold, flu, COVID-19, or anything that puts others at risk. No shame, just care.
Arrive freshly showered with clean breath and trimmed nails. Avoid heavy fragrances — many attendees are sensitive. Deodorant is appreciated. Hygiene is a form of respect.
BATE: Raleigh is a sober space. Do not arrive intoxicated. Do not bring alcohol or illegal drugs. Poppers are permitted with consideration for those nearby. Anyone visibly impaired will be asked to leave.
What happens at BATE stays at BATE. Never disclose the identity, attendance, or personal details of any member or attendee — inside or outside the event. No photos or recordings of others without explicit consent. Violations mean permanent removal.
6:30 PM – 8:30 PM
Raleigh-Midtown
0 / 45 Registered
7:30 AM – 9:30 AM
Raleigh-Midtown
0 / 25 Registered
6:00 PM – 8:00 PM
Local Brewery-Raleigh
This event is open to everyone who is interested in learning about BATE: Raleigh.
The morning session seems to bring morning wood baiting great fun full of energy
I was nervous as hell walking in. By the end of the night I felt completely at ease. The vibe was exactly what I needed — no pressure, no judgment, just good energy.
The bag and wristband system is genius. I didn't have to think about my stuff once. Just showed up and enjoyed the night.
No. Minimum attire is underwear, a jockstrap, or shorts. Full nudity is welcome but never required. You move at your own pace.
No — BATE: Raleigh welcomes men of all orientations. Gay, straight, bi, married, single, curious. What unites us is a shared appreciation for social masturbation, not a label.
You'll check in discreetly — no hotel desk interactions. You'll receive a numbered wristband and a bag for your belongings that stays secure until you leave.
Absolutely. Some men prefer to observe. There's no expectation to participate in anything you're not comfortable with. Watching and being watched is all part of the experience.
Yes. The exact address is sent to registered attendees approximately one hour before the session starts. Discretion is a core value of our community.
First-timers are always welcome. Nerves are normal. The room is welcoming, the rules are clear, and nobody will pressure you into anything. Many of our regulars started exactly where you are.