WHAT IS BATE:RALEIGH?
BATE: Raleigh is a jack-off club where men aged 21 and older can get naked and play with other men privately and comfortably.
Our Mission!
To promote and host men-only group jack-off events that foster and expand our sexual awareness while building a culture of mutual respect, dignity, and inclusivity among our brothers in a judgment-free environment.
October 2023
Launched and hosted first event in Raleigh
30+
Events hosted since October 2023
150+
Men who have attended an event
250+
Cumshots
Down and Dirty
Code of Conduct
- Consent is Important.
- DO: Masturbate self, show off, watch, touch others with consent.
- DON'T: Oral sex, anal contact, docking, or anything without consent.
- You're either naked, in a t-shirt, underwear, or a jockstrap.
- Be verbal when cumming. Get consent before coming on someone else.
- Before touching another member's penis, ask for permission.
- Maintain confidentially.
- Never disclose anyone's identity.
- If you are sick, stay home.
- No alcohol or drugs and do not show up intoxicated.
- Maintain proper hygiene. Wash hands. Use mouthwash. No fragrances.
- Talk quietly. No loud, distracting, unsexy conversations.
Join our next BATE: Raleigh Session
Who are the men of BATE: Raleigh?
The men of BATE: Raleigh come from all different backgrounds. Every session is fun and exciting because of the unexpected mix of guys that may attend. We thrive off of the diversity of our sessions.
We DO NOT discriminate against:
- Age
- Body Type
- Sexuality
- Penis
- Race
What Have Guys Said About BATE: Raleigh
Testimonials
As one of those first-timers, I can say it was an ideal intro to the group setting. Felt safe, comfortable, intensely enjoyable. It was a blast! Several, in fact.
Hi have to say, although wicked shy, I had a nice time! It’s my first time being part of such a club. Definitely looking forward to round 4 💦
Meetings include a diverse group of playful and welcoming guys of all body shapes, demographics, ages, and cock sizes. The meeting are hot, safe, and smoothly run with professional polish. If you’ve ever been curious about group play and haven’t pulled the trigger yet - this is a great place to start. If you’re on the fence, come to a gathering and just feel the vibes with no expectation to perform, touch, or be touched. You’ll probably find you’re ready to jump in shortly after arriving.
Walked in to some nice dudes jacking. Very inviting atmosphere. Had a fantastic time.
Contact Us
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Frequently Asked Questions
There are a lot of questions that we get about BATE: Raleigh. Here are just some of the frequently asked questions that we receive.
No, there is no anal or oral sex allowed at a BATE: Raleigh sessions.
Currently sessions are held in the Raleigh area at a local hotel.
To find our when our next session is, check the calendar. Every scheduled BATE: Raleigh session is added to the online calendar as soon as it is confirmed.
BATE: Raleigh schedule is subject to change.
No, you are not required to play with or touch anyone at the events. You get to decide who, if anyone to be your playmate.
Yes, there is a cost to attend a BATE: Raleigh sessions.
- $20 if you pay online before the RSVP date.
- $25 if you pay online after the RSVP date or at the door.
Cancellation Policy
If you can’t attend, you must communicate this to us in advance. Your payment will then be transferred to another session.
BATE: Raleigh recognizes the paramount importance of each member’s privacy. Our commitment is to create a secure environment at all our events, ensuring that every individual’s personal information is held in strict confidence. However, complete anonymity is not legally feasible.
As a private club, state law mandates us to authenticate and maintain certain personal details of all members. This is a strict policy without exceptions.
We stand firm in our policy to not disclose any member’s personal information, unless it is necessitated by a legal order such as a subpoena or for a public health inquiry.
No, you are not required to stay the entire session.
BATE: Raleigh provides lube (coconut oil). You are welcome to bring your own.